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How do we (men) even know if they (women) are interested? Women never bring it up in our group of friends, so it makes it hard to tell.
As I furrow my brow and stroke my invisible* beard, let me answer your question with a question:
How, pray tell, can women know if they are interested if they don’t have an opportunity to go out on a date with you and decide their level of interest?
My dad had an equally deep response:
This isn’t junior high anymore, so she won’t pass any notes**. Ask her out. You will soon know.
Recently on Twitter a guy asked, “Joy, my friend said he would give me an iPhone 5 if I asked out this girl from the donut shop. Should I?”
Ummm…I’m not one to promote consumerism, but if my friend dared me to ask out the chain smoking Santa Clause that rings the bell outside of the Goodwill for a new iPhone, I would definitely say yes.
Don’t tell Santa.
Marriage is a huge responsibility, my friends. I’m not trying to make light of our standards for who we pursue by ANY means, but sometimes it feels like we are so determined to have all the answers upon first sight that, as a result, we might just end up living a life on the sidelines watching.
Ask her out. And then be intentional about finding out.***
From The Eggerichs’ Hearts,
* Future husband, I swear…it’s invisible.
** Not gonna lie, I recently passed a note to a guy. Apparently, I just completed 6th grade.
*** Ladies, don’t play games. If you are interested in a guy, don’t act like you aren’t because you think it’s cute and coy. Help a brother out.
Guys: What are some reasons you may be afraid to ask a girl out?
Women: Do you find yourself acting uninterested? Why?
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