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Many of my divorced friends had wives that cheated on them. From a woman’s perspective, what warning signs should I be looking for during the dating process that would be indicative of a woman that might do that?
Even though I am a lady (thanks for noticing) my answer in the video below is based on some things I think both men AND women can be aware of as we navigate the search to find someone who will be faithful to us in marriage.
One thing that I always, always, always advise people to do is live their relationships in the light. In fact, that’s how The Illumination Project got its name! Whether we are single, married or dating, we need trusted people in our lives who can see what is going on – people with whom we are open and honest about what’s really going on.
Even if those trusted people are annoying with their questions and involvement in your relationship, I say, let them. It’s a lot less annoying than going to see a divorce lawyer.
It might be hard, but try not to let your fears of unfaithfulness or the stories you’ve heard paralyze you as you move toward getting to know someone. More on that, along with some additional things you can do as a husband or wife, in the video (and my attempt at the analogy about seeing the forest for the trees, but I always screw up phrases like that.)
So take your black kettle and call the pot before your chickens come home to roost and you count them.
From my heart,
Joy and the little piggies
P.S. Your day just got a whole lot better, didn’t it?
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