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I had never met someone whose heart understands to the same degree the passion and responsibility I feel for my work until Rachel came into my life. From the minute we first chatted on the phone to the all-you-can-eat sushi buffets, our conversations have happened at high speeds, with intensity, lots of nodding, big eyes, and eventual howls of laughter. When our work (God, relationships, and money—oh my!) isn’t being discussed, you might overhear Rachel trying to convince me that Taylor Swift is a legitimate artist.
I am thrilled to have Rachel share a lightbulb moment with “y’all,” as she would say, and open the doors to a message our generation desperately needs to know…
NOW.
(Oh, and Rachel eventually won me over on the Miss Swift thing. Although I’m not at the point where I can refer to her as “Tay-Tay”like she does… just yet.)
Growing up as Dave Ramsey’s kid, you can probably imagine that the importance of making smart decisions with money was drilled into my head at an early age.
As long as I can remember, I’ve always been intrigued by my dad’s message about personal finance—which, as he’ll be the first to tell you, is just common sense. It’s all about not going into debt, living on less than you make, and helping other people.
The way his message has provided hope and saved marriages, and how people respond to it, has always captivated me. So when I was 15, I started traveling with him to his live events and doing a small segment on kids and money.
When I went to college, I realized how fortunate I was to have lived in a “financial bubble” for so long. The way I was taught to handle money, give, save, spend, budget, and live without debt was totally weird and completely opposite to the way most of my friends handled their money.
I met a girl at my freshman orientation during the first week of school. She had a brand-new luxury car. It was beautiful.
When I told her how awesome her car was, she said, “Thanks! I got it for high school graduation and had to get a car loan. It’s my first loan, and I feel like an adult!”
I was pretty shocked.
So I had to break it down for her. My response was something like this:
“You have a car loan every month? Did you know the average car payment in North America today is $482, and if you put that in a good growth stock mutual fund, averaging 12% from age 18 to 65, you could have $5.2 million dollars?”
Just kidding. I wasn’t quite that technical. But I do remember saying something about a mutual fund, to which she responded,
“What’s a mutual fund?”
That’s when it hit me, when I had my “lightbulb moment.”
My generation has such a lack of knowledge about money.
Even the most basic areas of personal finance, like reconciling a checking account, are far beyond a lot of people in my generation. That’s scary. Even more scary is that a lot of people are in trouble—or at least headed down the road to being in trouble, buried in credit cards and student loan debt.
Twenty-two-year-olds are graduating with tens of thousands and even hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. That’s just insane!
They need to know this stuff. Since I’ve been living these principles out in my own life for years, I decided that I had to go out and spread this message.
Sure, my dad has been doing a great job of reaching people of all ages for a long time, but it never hurts to have a younger voice out there. That just helps show that personal finance isn’t something you wait until you are 30 to start caring about.
If you pay attention to your money in your teens and 20s, then you’ll be coasting by the time you are 30, rather than spending all your effort digging out of your student loan debt and credit card bills.
When I graduated from college a few years ago, I came on board dad’s team fulltime, and I’ve never been more passionate about spreading this message. I’ve been traveling all over America, talking to high school students, college students and young adults on common-sense, biblical ways to handle their money.
Instant gratification is so rampant in my generation,
…so I emphasize patience and contentment.Too many people my age look at what their parents have and want to have that right now. They don’t think about the fact that it took their parents 30 years to get where they are today.
Think about “The Tortoise and the Hare,” a story most of us read as kids. It’s a great reminder that patience pays off, no matter how old you are.
Most of us aren’t Mark Zuckerberg—billionaires when we are in our 20s. We’ll have to spend a lot of time building wealth, saving money, and investing. And that’s okay. Because when we do that, and when we follow these common-sense principles,
…we’re going to set ourselves up for incredible success later in life.
Around the office, we call it “changing your family tree,” which is a good reminder that your success now isn’t just about you. It’s also about your kids, your grandkids, and even several generations down the line. Your actions today matter.
So, remember, you can’t shortcut your way to financial success. “Get rich quick” just doesn’t work. Be patient. Learn contentment. More than anything, that’s the message I want my generation to hear.
Have you had any financially illuminating moments in your life?
What will you do today to, “change your family tree”?
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Rachel, your dad’s message saved me. I went through an incredibly rough patch in my early 20s and in depression turned to spending money as my drug. It was a comfort thing for me. If I could buy myself something new, I would feel better. And even though it was just for a brief moment, a brief moment of feeling better was better than anything I was feeling otherwise. One day my friend mentioned that I should look into the Total Money Makeover, so I went and bought the book…with my credit card. 🙂 That purchase changed my life, and I am in a significantly better financial position than I was then and am eternally grateful for the wisdom of your father. I would definitely say that that was my light-bulb moment!
What will I do today to change my family tree? Just continue on the path laid out before me. Lean on the wisdom of others who have walked the road before me and continue to gain strength from them along the way. Thank you for your ministry!
Hi Joy.
An Aside. What a great name. Oh Joy! Making me smile right now…
I’m back.. Thanks again for another insightful article/red hot dialogue inducing branding iron.
I am a graduate of two schools. One is the Financial Peace University which I took at 39 yrs old and will talk about in a moment. The other and more relevant school was the “do as I say, not as I do” school of my parents. I love my Mom and I love my Dad, forever. I do, however, have some issue with all the things they taught me about handling finances. I can sum up my higher financial education in the first 38 years of my life in one phrase, “If you want it, charge it.” My parents were both full time workers and part time parents and we had what I thought was a comfortable life. The only problem was the secrecy they had about so many things including money. It was a taboo topic in our house and my brothers and I were left to assume that money just came with being a grown up. I only ever saw my Dad use cash when we he paid entry fees into parks, lakes, stadiums etc. everything else was on plastic. My Mom was the same. we need a new vacuum? Go to Sears and charge it. Fast forward to my first full time job at 19 and add in my first, second, third and fourth department store credit cards and a car loan and you have a recipe for disaster.
In the time between my 19th birthday and my 38th, I experienced a marriage, the birth of 4 children, buying and selling numerous cars and a boat, buying and short selling/losing two houses (owned at the same time during the market collapse) a divorce, and amassing enough credit card debt to choke an a-list celebrity’s accountant.
All the while my kids were seeing the same obsequiously destructive behavior my parents passed on to me. Is it their fault? No, it was the greatest thing ever invented when it was new in their lifetime. To have credit extended by a bank or department store was a status upgrade. And when I got my first platinum card, I thought I was the king of the world. Different times now when you can apply in 3 mins and have a response in less than a minute for a brand new hassle free platinum visa. Sickening…
By the grace of God, and after my second education with Rachel’s Dad, I am now totally debt free and have a growing savings account/investment portfolio.
Here’s my lesson and challenge. Seek the knowledge you lack and challenge the knowledge you already have. Don’t be complacent in your quest for financial freedom, for the slavery you will encounter with the burden of overwhelming debt is more physically, emotionally and spiritually oppressive than anything else I have experienced in my 41 years.
One last note, whatever your beliefs, I hold to the universal truth of this passage within God’s Word. “See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is for the autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm…” James 5:7-8. while this passage speaks towards waiting on the Lord. The truth is this, addiction to instant gratification is very real and very dangerous. Practice the art of saving up for something. Whether it’s a nice meal, a car, a house or an engagement ring. Practice daily slowing down, waiting and watching to see the amazing opportunities life will offer you while you are smelling the roses.
Thanks Rachel for listening to your Dad and Joy (*Sigh*) if only I were 10 years younger. 😉
Love this! My parents gave my husband and me the chance to attend FPU as a wedding gift before we were married. Best wedding gift EVER!
I don’t know if there’s a way to pass my comment on to Rachel, but if there is, please feel free to do so. I’d love to get more information about the right way to go about investing and using mutual funds. I’m pretty good about saving, but I’d like to take our finances to the next level. It would be great to see something laid out step-by-step from another 20-something. I remember hearing about it in FPU, but some of it went over my head, and I’d love to revisit it now that I have some more money to work with. Perhaps something we could see a post on in the future?
Thanks again for the great post! I really enjoyed it.
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Thanks for sharing! Rachel seems like a really cool person! Well, I’m newly married, and our going to a Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University Class just may have saved our marriage- and saved us time spent arguing or wondering where all the $$ went! We had the head knowledge of budgeting, saving, and being content where we were instead of trying to get where our parents are at now. But applying the principles (esp. the debt snowball and envelope system!) have truly changed our lives in how we use our money. It’s so great not having money as an issue in our marriage, each month we know what we’re going to spend and how. Everyone going into college needs to be aware of the danger of loans- student loans and credit card loans. You will likely spend years paying them back- it’s just not worth it!!
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