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Monthly Archives: September 2014

15

Mana by Preston Yancey

Mana by Preston Yancey

I remember my college pastor Ben Patterson often quoting the verse, “In Him, we move and have our being.”

I was excited to see that verse in today’s post by Preston Yancey because, like my college pastor, he is one of those thinker-writer types that incorporates the poetry of Scripture into the poetry of their writing. Read more

5

Age Segregation in America and the Church

Age Segregation in America and the Church

Researchers at MIT have begun seeing noticeable trends in society that mimic the impact of racial segregation in our communities.  This Boston Globe article examines and discusses the scientific and historical side of what age segregation has been like in America.  Inspired by this, I decided to do a little video to share my thoughts, as well as share some things that defined me as a child and now as an adult.

Storybooks and Hot Sauce. Read more

8

More Questions to Ask Before You Get Married: Wisdom with Preschoolers

Questions to ask before you get married

Well, hello!

This last summer I did a series with a guy named Dr. Norm “Normie” Thiesen, and I asked him all sorts of questions about singleness, dating and marriage. In one episode I asked him, “What questions should a young couple ask an older couple before they get married?”

He gave two answers.

Then I asked y’all a similar question, and you gave me 33 answers. Read more

18

Did God Lie? When The One Walks Away

Did God lie? When the one walks away.

One of the most common phrases I’ve written in response to the Ask Joy emails I’ve received over the years is, “God is not trying to trick you.” I believe this old post–which I’ve updated for today–is an example of what triggers this type of question. But it also gets at the deeper issue we all need to face when we’re left wondering if we’ve misunderstood “God’s leading” in our life.

We may even wonder, “God, did you lie to me? Do you even care?”

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13

Why L-O-V-E Spells T-I-M-E by Timothy Willard

Why L-O-V-E Spells T-I-M-E

This is the third time Mr. Timothy Willard has guest posted on the ol’ LRN site. He’s pretty much the male-Joy at this point, which is a title he’s been working toward for the past few years.  (Bows head to be Knighted.)

In reality, I keep asking him back because I know him, respect him and appreciate his wisdom as a married man who can shed light on an area that, well, I cannot.

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6

Giving Relationship Advice: Your Story is Not Their Story

Giving Relationship Advice: Your Story is Not Their Story

It’s Chemistry Week! I recently found this video buried deeeeep down in the archive lair, and for whatever reason, I never shared it with y’all. Maybe it was because the rain was makin’ my hair look real “special” that day.

Not only do I share my thoughts on chemistry, but I go off on a rant about how people IN a relationship or marriage should and should not counsel others.

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Hey Joy, Read more

13

Is Chemistry Real? Laws of Attraction, Muumuus and Siblings

Is Chemistry Real? Laws of Attraction

Hey Joy,

There’s this woman I am attracted to, but after I kissed her I wasn’t feelin’ it at all anymore. Is chemistry outside of chemistry class real, or is it all in my head? Read more

6

He Shuts Me Down: How To Fight To Be an Ally with Your Guy

He Shuts Me Down: How to Fight To Be an Ally With Your Guy

Hey Joy,

My husband and I just heard the Love and Respect message. Now, whenever we get into conflict, he shuts me down by saying, “You’re being disrespectful.”

How am I supposed to bring something up to him if this is always his response to conflict?
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So Worth Loving: Eryn Erickson’s Illumination

So Worth Loving: Eryn Erickson's Illumination

I’m sure Eryn hates being described as little, adorable and tiny, but all I can say is, I clench my jaw from cuteness-overload when I see her–similar to how I feel when I see a kitten. Judge as you will. But just because she has adorable fashion sense and is the size of something I could throw over my shoulder like a continental solider, she is a GIANT in the department of world changers. May some of her love, energy and enthusiasm to serve the unseen and the …

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