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Monthly Archives: August 2012

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Illumination Guest: Alece Ronzino – Respect Thrown In My Face

ALECER

Alece was the first person I became friends with on Twitter who I then actually met in person. So far it’s the closest thing I have experienced to online dating, and I was so nervous that I brought my friend Lindsay with me. Just to make sure that Alece wasn’t a serial killer.

Turns out, she wasn’t. Read more

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Ask Joy: Billy Doesn’t Date

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Ask Joy

So I have this friend Billy who does not believe in dating. He says there are no examples in the bible to give us grounds for modern dating, therefore what’s the point?

-Nate

My Response

Oh Billy, there are also no examples of eating ice cream in the bible, so what’s the point of going to Dairy Queen?

But seriously… Read more

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Illumination Guest: Josh White – Wounded Healer

The Followers

I first heard Josh White speak more than five years ago when I attended a 6 AM Bible study he was leading. If Christianity worked on a gold-star system, …6 AM Bible studies should deserve at least 72 stars. Fast-forward a number of years, and Josh and his adorable family decide to plant a church called Door of Hope just six blocks from my house. Josh is not only a pastor, but he is also a recording artist, so the church is chock-full of people …

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Ask Joy: Facebook Feud

Photo Credit: Shirley Sheung

Ask Joy

Hi, Joy! 

Recently I was talking to this guy and everything was going well. We had planned a date and everything. Out of nowhere, he just disappeared and blocked me on Facebook. Can you give guys advice on that? They cannot just disappear. They have to tell the girl they are not into them. I don’t think this is even a godly reaction. He is not putting the other person’s feelings before his. Please post on Facebook because he is on the Love and Respect Now page. 

—Annie

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Illumination Guest: Rachel Cruze – Common “Cents”

Photo Credit: Ashley Elizabeth

I had never met someone whose heart understands to the same degree the passion and responsibility I feel for my work until Rachel came into my life. From the minute we first chatted on the phone to the all-you-can-eat sushi buffets, our conversations have happened at high speeds, with intensity, lots of nodding, big eyes, and eventual howls of laughter. When our work (God, relationships, and money—oh my!) isn’t being discussed, you might overhear Rachel trying to convince me that Taylor Swift is a legitimate artist.

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Ask Joy: Mini-Men and Small Man Syndrome

Snow Joy

Ask Joy:

Working in a predominantly male environment, how do I not become a “mini-man” like many of my female co-workers?

-Carly

My Response

First off Carly, I want to say that you are adequate for the job, because you got the job.

Often we misinterpret others perceptions of us, based on our own insecurities.

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Illumination Guest: Hannah Joiner – Above The Noise

hannah joiner

Hannah and I have a long history of friendship. And by long history, I mean we’ve had a few hours of in-person face time. I was at Catalyst, and my friend Jeff said, “Hey, you need to meet my friend Hannah.” Jeff is either really good at knowing who will hit it off or just gifted at figuring out how to ditch me,

…but, whatever his motivation, it worked.

Hannah and I sat in a corner, literally almost eyeball to eyeball, and talked for about three hours straight. Her boyfriend stopped by our conversation when we apparently

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Ask Joy: Translating the Transaction

Photo Credit: Nate Grubbs

Ask Joy

I have been talking to a guy from a dating website for about two months, and we decided we are going to finally meet. We are a few hours away from each other. Should I be helping him pay for his expenses? Gas and hotel? Or should I expect him to pay for it and put forth some effort? He appreciates if we can share the cost.          

—Fiora  Read more

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Effective Ways to Engage Your Father

Photo Credit: Amanda Giordano

Last week Dr. Ken Canfield wrote a piece on fathers and daughters. As I mentioned in the intro, my own father and Dr. Ken Canfield have been friends for over two decades. They support, sharpen and respect one another greatly.  So when my father read Ken’s article last week, reporting the top ten questions women wanted to ask their dads, my father responded with ways he believes women could ask the questions and be more effective in communicating their hearts to the men in their life. 

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